Highlights:
- Viral Instagram video by Indian American couple Deepak and Hannah.
- Funny yet awkward questions include “Do you have a sister for me to marry?”
- Deepak addresses the common arranged marriage assumption with humor.
- Viewers flood comments with laughter, shared experiences, and empathy.
The clip sparks wider conversation on cross-cultural marriages and social curiosity.An Indian American couple has captured the hearts of social media users with a humorous video revealing the most unusual and awkward questions they frequently receive after getting married.
The light-hearted clip, shared on their joint Instagram account ‘Deepak and Hannah,’ has gone viral, drawing thousands of views and sparking relatable conversations among viewers from similar cross-cultural backgrounds.
“Do you have a sister for me to marry?”: The most common question
In the video, husband Deepak initiates the conversation by asking his wife Hannah, “What’s the weirdest thing people ask you after getting married to me?” Without missing a beat, Hannah responds that the most bizarre question she receives—primarily from strangers and followers in their social media comments and direct messages—is whether she has a sister for them to marry. She calls this request “weird” and adds that people also frequently say things like, “I can’t wait to see your babies,” which she also finds strange.
This kind of question highlights the cultural curiosity and social norms within South Asian communities, where family-oriented queries often extend beyond immediate relationships, sometimes crossing personal boundaries, especially when it involves interracial couples.
Deepak’s take: The 'arranged marriage' surprise
Taking the conversation further, Deepak shares a surprising question he often faces: “Did you have an arranged marriage, or not?” He responds amusedly to the assumption, “Like, how can that be possible? My parents went all the way to Michigan, America, to find a woman for me.” This playful comeback exposes the disconnect some people have in understanding love marriages involving diaspora or cross-cultural relationships and the assumptions that often come with such unions.
Hannah jokes in reply, “Or my parents went from the US to India in search of a husband.” The couple ends the clip emphasizing clearly: “Of course, it’s love marriage, guys.”
Relatable humor resonates with many viewers
The video struck a chord with online audiences who flooded the comment section with laughter and shared experiences. Many viewers found the couple's candidness and humor refreshing and relatable. One user wrote, “Sisters hahah, I get that all the time too! You’re so cute, guys.” Another praised the couple’s dynamic, saying, “But you both made it perfect.” Some viewers jokingly compared the experience to being an “American mail order bride,” commenting on the frequent questioning interracial couples face about their marriage types.
Others opened up about the strangeness of arranged marriage questions in general, especially for intercultural couples. One commenter noted, “The arranged marriage questions are so weird and asked so often to interracial couples.” Another shared their personal connection, “I can relate to everything you said.”
A sweet note amidst the laughs
Despite the playful tone, some viewers offered touching messages amidst the laughter. One user suggested a beautiful perspective on their relationship: “Your marriage is arranged by God when you fall in love on this planet.” This sentiment added a heartfelt dimension to the viral video, reinforcing the universal belief in love transcending cultural boundaries.
The larger context: Cross-cultural marriages and social curiosity
The video’s popularity reflects a broader conversation around intercultural and interracial marriages today, especially among diaspora communities. Couples often navigate the intersection of traditional expectations and modern realities, which can lead to awkward or invasive questions from family, friends, and even strangers.
Questions about arranged marriages, children, and family connections reveal the enduring cultural values placed on marriage and kinship in Indian and South Asian societies, even while diasporic identities evolve.
Through their humorous yet sincere storytelling, Deepak and Hannah have not only entertained thousands but also spotlighted the sometimes uncomfortable social experiences intercultural couples encounter. Their viral clip has sparked laughter, empathy, and reflection among diverse audiences and reminded viewers of the importance of understanding and respecting different relationship journeys.
